Anonymous Asked
QuestionDid you find seeing a therapist...difficult at first? In terms of sharing. I've been thinking about seeing a therapist for months now...I ricochet between being extremely happy and extremely depressed; it literally cripples me. I've tried changing different things that I felt made me unhappy, but I've learned that changing your external circumstances won't fix an internal issue. But I'm very nervous to share with someone. I need someone to talk to but I'm also apprehensive. Your thoughts? Answer

It is important to talk to someone impartial who listens with no ulterior motives. I like to talk and share. I do that through different mediums. To me therapy was like tweeting outloud. You do have to be comfortable and it will take you a few tries. Dont feel compelled to stay with a therapist if you Dont click. What’s important is your freedom and safety and process towards healing. Try to relax and consider the help you need and be kind to yourself.

Anonymous Asked
QuestionPlease I miss your " I want to kiss you video" I can't find it anywhere * sad face* Answer

I found it a few weeks ago. I will repost it as soon as I can get to a computer.

  • Hella long but it cracked me the fuck up.
  • Boogie is reading to me before he goes to bed. It's a book called Animals and all he does is name the animals and make the sound or action that goes with said animal. Somehow, we started talking about what you make out of animals and it was all downhill from there...
  • Boogie: So what do you do with a sheep?
  • Me: You know how when you get a haircut, you have to pick up all the hair and throw in the trash?
  • Boogie: Yes
  • Me: Well, sheep's wool you take it and you use it to make sweaters and blankets.
  • Boogie: Oh... and then the sheep grows more hair. What about a pig?
  • Me: Um...
  • Boogie: What do you make from pigs?
  • Me: Well, some people eat pigs.
  • Boogie: WHAT?!
  • Me: Yes like... bacon and sausage and pepperoni and ham...
  • Boogie: Stop! Stop!
  • *pretends to faint onto his pillow*
  • Boogie: I can't hear anymore. *eyes closed, arm draped dramatically over his head*
  • Boogie: What about the chickens?
  • Me: You don't want to know...
  • Boogie: Yes I do...
  • Me: eggs
  • Boogie: WHAT?!
  • Me: Nuggets
  • Boogie: WHAT?!
  • Me: Popeyes
  • Boogie: WHAT?! What the---
  • Me: I know.
  • Boogie: I'm going to turn the page now.
  • *This page is filled with baby animals that you match with their parents*
  • Boogie: The bunny goes with Rabbit... the kitten goes with the cat... the dog goes with the puppy
  • Me: Good job
  • He turns the page
  • Boogie: I know what a baby fish is called. Fishsticks.
  • Me: No. Fishsticks are made out of fish. Baby fish are just baby fish.
  • Boogie: Fishsticks... are made out of fish?? What about corndogs?!
  • Me: *sigh* Sometimes cows, pigs and chickens
  • Boogie: Stop telling me things!
  • Me: You asked!
  • Boogie: No more reading. I don't want to know what you do with dogs and cats.
  • Me: ME?! I'm not doing anything!
  • Boogie: *side eyes me*
  • Then he pulls his Toy Story blanket over him and turns his back on me.
  • Boogie: Good night, mommy. I hope you don't eat kittens!

basseyworld:

I need to stop forgetting that I’m a brave girl. A woman who follows her heart even if it leads her off a cliff. I know I’m strong enough to climb back up, dust myself off, laugh at the ridiculous of it all and still find room in my heart to allow someone to enter. I need to stop forgetting that…

"Taking the high road doesn’t always get you where you need to go."
— I either just made this up or I heard it in a song. Let’s say I made it up.  (via basseyworld)

Finding old posts upon my return to tumblr.

basseyworld:

Ask me what you want. I’ll decide what I answer. 

Ask me na.

Face fresh like baby breath. #nommakeup #nofilter #fanta

ramblingsofanurbanjawn:

The below link is a donate link, but Im just posting it for the pic. Because my phone died in the middle of this whole thing I have no images.

Just that one.

And it is bad enough.

That was my bedroom.

Please donate to @ms_sashi. 

ramblingsofanurbanjawn:

Today my apartment caught on fire and I lost everything.

Well, I dont want to lie. My two favorite pieces of furniture (two end tables) and most of my books/dvds/music all managed to be salvageable. I think. Once the fire trucks left and I dealt with Red Cross, I had to dip. I just couldnt be…

Do something. 

hrndzbee:

Why I’m deeply in love with Bruno Mars and Phil!

i love him

animalstalkinginallcaps:

ANDREA, WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
BEYONCÉ.
WHAT IS THAT?
BOY DON’T EVEN TOUCH THIS. BOY THIS BEAT IS CRAZY. THIS IS HOW THEY MADE ME, HOUSTON TEXAS BABY! WHO RUN THE WORLD? GIRLS! WHO RUN THE WORLD? GIRLS! 
I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT. IS IT A POKEMON OR SOMETHING? DON’T YOU WANT TO BE A DOCTOR OR A LAWYER?
IT’S HOT UP IN HERE! DJ DON’T BE SCARED TO RUN THIS, RUN THIS BACK! I’M REPPING FOR THE GIRLS TAKING OVER THE WORLD, LET ME RAISE A GLASS FOR THE COLLEGE GRADS!
THAT’S GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME. LET’S GO GET SOME ICE CREAM

LMAO!!!!!

animalstalkinginallcaps:

ANDREA, WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?

BEYONCÉ.

WHAT IS THAT?

BOY DON’T EVEN TOUCH THIS. BOY THIS BEAT IS CRAZY. THIS IS HOW THEY MADE ME, HOUSTON TEXAS BABY! WHO RUN THE WORLD? GIRLS! WHO RUN THE WORLD? GIRLS! 

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT. IS IT A POKEMON OR SOMETHING? DON’T YOU WANT TO BE A DOCTOR OR A LAWYER?

IT’S HOT UP IN HERE! DJ DON’T BE SCARED TO RUN THIS, RUN THIS BACK! I’M REPPING FOR THE GIRLS TAKING OVER THE WORLD, LET ME RAISE A GLASS FOR THE COLLEGE GRADS!

THAT’S GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME. LET’S GO GET SOME ICE CREAM

LMAO!!!!!

frankocean:

same.

I don’t know what the caption means but me too. 

  1. Camera: iPhone 4S
  2. Aperture: f/2.4
  3. Exposure: 1/15th
  4. Focal Length: 4mm
dkuzla:

israelfacts:

The Washington Post

Jesus.

Fuck Isreal. Not Jewish people. Not the Jewish faith. Fuck the state of Israel.  dkuzla:

israelfacts:

The Washington Post

Jesus.

Fuck Isreal. Not Jewish people. Not the Jewish faith. Fuck the state of Israel.  dkuzla:

israelfacts:

The Washington Post

Jesus.

Fuck Isreal. Not Jewish people. Not the Jewish faith. Fuck the state of Israel.  dkuzla:

israelfacts:

The Washington Post

Jesus.

Fuck Isreal. Not Jewish people. Not the Jewish faith. Fuck the state of Israel.  dkuzla:

israelfacts:

The Washington Post

Jesus.

Fuck Isreal. Not Jewish people. Not the Jewish faith. Fuck the state of Israel. 

dkuzla:

israelfacts:

The Washington Post

Jesus.

Fuck Isreal. Not Jewish people. Not the Jewish faith. Fuck the state of Israel. 

(Source: thebowspring)

christinshootspeople:

Adorable hair accessory by Jaydabug’s Lil Bowtique.
llbrewer2011@yahoo.com

This little girl leaves me speechless. It’s not even the clothes or the posing. Her face is incredible and so gorgeous and so tiny. Her eyes are so full of life. You see kids sometimes posed by their parents and they look vacant and distant, I wouldn’t be shocked if this little girl dressed herself and said, “Mom, get the camera. I got some looks.” I want a little girl…   christinshootspeople:

Adorable hair accessory by Jaydabug’s Lil Bowtique.
llbrewer2011@yahoo.com

This little girl leaves me speechless. It’s not even the clothes or the posing. Her face is incredible and so gorgeous and so tiny. Her eyes are so full of life. You see kids sometimes posed by their parents and they look vacant and distant, I wouldn’t be shocked if this little girl dressed herself and said, “Mom, get the camera. I got some looks.” I want a little girl…   christinshootspeople:

Adorable hair accessory by Jaydabug’s Lil Bowtique.
llbrewer2011@yahoo.com

This little girl leaves me speechless. It’s not even the clothes or the posing. Her face is incredible and so gorgeous and so tiny. Her eyes are so full of life. You see kids sometimes posed by their parents and they look vacant and distant, I wouldn’t be shocked if this little girl dressed herself and said, “Mom, get the camera. I got some looks.” I want a little girl…   christinshootspeople:

Adorable hair accessory by Jaydabug’s Lil Bowtique.
llbrewer2011@yahoo.com

This little girl leaves me speechless. It’s not even the clothes or the posing. Her face is incredible and so gorgeous and so tiny. Her eyes are so full of life. You see kids sometimes posed by their parents and they look vacant and distant, I wouldn’t be shocked if this little girl dressed herself and said, “Mom, get the camera. I got some looks.” I want a little girl…  

christinshootspeople:

Adorable hair accessory by Jaydabug’s Lil Bowtique.

llbrewer2011@yahoo.com

This little girl leaves me speechless. It’s not even the clothes or the posing. Her face is incredible and so gorgeous and so tiny. Her eyes are so full of life. You see kids sometimes posed by their parents and they look vacant and distant, I wouldn’t be shocked if this little girl dressed herself and said, “Mom, get the camera. I got some looks.” 

I want a little girl…  


I’m not a Jill Scott fan but this is one of my favorite songs in the world and it is singing my life right now. It’s on repeat because of reasons and has now become the ringtone of the reason so that when the phone rings, I’ll be reminded and I won’t answer. 



Slowly surely, 
I walk away from 
that old desperate and dazed love 
caught up in the maze of love 
the crazy craze of love 
thought it was good 
thought it was real 
thought it was 
but it wasn’t love 

I just don’t know 
Where i should go 
So 
Slowly surely 
I walk away from 
self-serving 
undeserving 
constantly hurting me love 
deserting me love 
you said, I said, we said 
but 

Slowly surely 
I walk away from 
confusing love 
misusing love 
abusing love 
this can’t be 

Slowly surely 
I walk away from 
self serving 
undeserving 
constantly hurting me love 

I just don’t know 
where I should go 
No 
I just don’t know 
know, know, know 
Where I should go 
so 

Slowly surely 
I walk away from 
that old desperate and dazed love 
caught up in the maze of love 
the crazy craze of love 

thought it was good 
thought it was real 
thought it was 
but it wasn’t love 

I just don’t know where to go 
So 

Slowly surely 
I walk away from 
I walk away from 
Slowly surely 
I walk away from love 
Oh 
slowlyy, surely one step at a time 
but surely 
I will pass the old love aside 
and love me 
slowly, 
surely I walk away from 
slowly surely I walk away from desperating love 
caught up in the maze love 
crazy crazy craze of love 
slowly surely, I walk away from [repeat 5 times]
Slooooooowly Suuuuuuurely, slowly surely